Benjie, Joan make wedding guests cry

Wake-uppers:

US Ambassador Goldberg/US Embassy

Scene: Two days after USAid Deputy Assistant Administrator for Asia Gregory Beck visited the earthquake-ravaged areas in Bohol,  US Ambassador to the Philippines Philip Goldberg was in Bohol last Thursday, Dec 12. He mingled with kids at the Maribojoc Central Elem School.  Goldberg and USAid Philippines Program Director Gloria Steele gave school kits and teaching materials which the US government donated to Bohol teachers who lost their kits during the 7.2 magnitude earthquake.

Scene: Christmas season starts with the observance of misa de gallo or simbang gabi on Dec. 16. For nine days ( beginning on December 16 and culminating on December 24), Filipinos wake up in the wee hours of the morning and brave the cold weather, to attend dawn masses which usually start at 4 a.m., as an expression of devotion to God. Traditionally, completing the novena is also supposed to mean that God would grant the devotee’s special wish or favor.

Scene: “Bohol Sings for Hope” album is now on Soundcloud featuring the singles Bangon Boholano and Tugkaran. Full songs and teasers may now be played/downloaded. Help to raise funds for the rebuilding of Bohol! For more info visit facebook.com/bangonboholanomusic or soundcloud.com/bangonboholanomusic and share the music!

Scene: “Where is Miss Bohol Sandugo 2013 Brigitte Burato now?” asked the roving VRS (codenamed May Asim Pa). “There was no shadow of her doing her job as Bohol’s ambassador of goodwill especially during the 7.2 earthquake. I don’t think she’s busy! I hope she can give time to Bohol while the crown is in her head,” added VRS.

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Having met several times during Benjie Oliva’s early days at the Department of Agriculture (DA), it seemed like the two were only meant to be acquaintances. But after being forced to work together, where Atty. Joan Jagonos as the DA’s internal auditor and senior staff and Benjie as the secretary’s regional engagement officer in charge for the regional  trips and activities, the two eventually warmed up to each other and fell in love.

Mr and Mrs. Benjie Oliva

Ihad an exclusive interview with the couple for GMA News when their wedding wascancelled last October after a 7.2 magnitude earthquake hit Bohol where theyshared their beautiful love story. Benjie admitted that it was a love at firstsight when he saw Joan.

What’s surprising to learn was that Benjie was sending flowers to Joan several times. 

It was their compatibility that kept the sparks flying.

I asked Benjie and Joan what was the most beautiful thing about each other inside and out. Benjie enthused, “She is a gift from God. She is the woman that God wants me to marry. Working with her feels like the biggest blessing and such a dream come true.” Joan is grateful for having Benjie by her side. “He is the most unique gift from God.”

On December 7, 2013, Benjie tied the knot with Joan at the Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, Taloto District, in Tagbilaran City, dubbed “wedding of the year.”

The much-anticipated wedding was attended by politicians and generated incredible star power.

The wedding vows were so touching that the well-heeled guests couldn‘t help but cry.

The radiant bride walked down the aisle while the groom was singing Ikaw (popularized by Martin Nievera) accompanied by Major Plus organizer, part of which goes, Ikaw ang bigay ng Maykapal, Tugon sa aking dasal, Upang sa lahat ng panahon, Bawat pagkakataon, Ang ibigin ko’y ikaw, Ikaw ang tanglaw sa ‘king mundo, Kabiyak nitong puso ko, Wala ni kahati mang saglit, Na sa iyo’y may papalit, Ngayo’t kailanma’y ikaw...

The principal sponsors

Recounted Mrs. Lea Fabia, owner of the Philippine Nautical Training Colleges, who was among the teary-eyed guests, “I was touched and teary-eyed when I heard Benjie sang the song Ikaw. I couldn’t help sharing their joys. The overflowing happiness etched on their faces was infectious.”

The groom lovingly looked at his bride, as he said, “I take you to be my wife, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever...” and Joan, her eyes fixed on her brand-new husband, answered, “I take you to be my husband, my partner in life and my one true love. I will cherish our friendship and love you today, tomorrow, and forever...”

Anyway, Atty. Ethel Lungay-Reyes, daughter of former Catigbian Mayor and Senior Board Member

Arnold Lungay and one of the secondary sponsors of the wedding, says it all:

The first time I saw on Facebook that Benjie Oliva, a very good friend of mine, was saying words of love, I know it was something more than just an ordinary love story.  When I heard about their story, there was nothing extraordinary either.  Both Benjie and Atty. Joan are connected with the Department of Agriculture, they were introduced by their bosses and they became friends. Benjie was smitten by Joan and he never let her out of his sight.  It didn’t take too long and Benjie finally proposed marriage.

For weeks the couple were very busy in the preparation of their big wedding.  I described it as a Big wedding not only because of the number of the whole entourage but most of all because of the members of the entourage with no less than Senator Paolo Benigno “Bam” Aquino, Department of Agriculture Secretary Proceso Alcala, Governor Edgar Chatto, Vice Governor Concepcion Lim, Representatives Rene Relampagos, Arthur Yap and Erico Aristotle Aumentado, board members, mayors, undersecretary and directors of the Department of Agriculture and family friends.

The simple love story became extraordinary when the 7.2 magnitude earthquake shook the province of Bohol four days before their chosen church wedding date, October 19, 2013 at the Our Lady of Assumption Parish church, Dauis, Bohol.

The couple decided to move the wedding date and instead motivated everybody to stand on its feet and help the victims.  The earthquake did not shake their love for each other.  It nourished their relationship even more while they roamed around town after town, barangay after barangay to distribute the relief goods to the victims. 

The church wedding of Benjie and Joan was finally held last December 7, 2013 at the Immaculate Heart of Mary Parish, Taloto District, Tagbilaran City at 2 pm.

The groom, Benjie, wore a dark suit and the bride, Joan, was very radiant in her white long gown.   The whole entourage was very colorful in red.

The wedding turned out to be a very intimate affair.  The groom sang “Ikaw” while the bride walked down the isle.  The Mass was officiated by Most Rev. Leopoldo S. Tumulak, formerly Bishop of the Diocese of Tagbilaran and co-offciated by Rev. Fr. Avelino S. Vale, Rev. Fr. Vengie D. Laguros, Rev. Fr. Leonel Grado and Rev. Fr. Alger Angcla.

The songs of Major Plus filled the church with music during the wedding ceremony. It was followed by heartwarming songs chosen by the groom and the bride sang by Mr. Jerome Sala during the pictorial.

The reception followed at the Panglao Island Nature Resort, Panglao, Bohol.  The bride and the groom as well as all the guests made the party very warm as they stayed and gamely stayed and participated in the program.

The program was made very lively by the energetic host Miss Gloria Araneta and the Center Stage band.

The first part of the program was capped by a very breathtaking fireworks display. Those who stayed were treated to an all night party with the couple having a fabulous night.

Indeed this is a well loved couple and it was shown by the very successful wedding. The earthquake shook them but their love for each other firmly stood ground.  And now it can be told, their love for each other conquered all.

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